Speaker 1: 0:01

what's up y'all, sugar, dj cornbread aka the empress back with another one. So I just had, I just I just got something to say. I just got. I got a question for y'all.

Speaker 1: 0:15

So, if you are in a relationship, do you think it's okay to post your significant other on social media? And like, what are the pros and cons of that, especially like if the person is a nobody? Or if the person is somebody, an influencer, you know could have a big name in the city, in the streets, or it could just be, you know, it could just be both of y'all, just regular. Do you think it's okay to post your significant other on social media? I'm going to say I feel like at first, I would say when I was younger, I used to feel a certain type of way about it. If the person didn't want to post me, I was like like dang, what you doing? You cheating, or is somebody on there you trying to? You know, keep tabs. They got they keep the tabs on you, or what's the issue, why you don't want to do that, why you don't want to do that. So my issue was like you don't want to nobody to see me, you don't want to. I mean, what's going on. But I had to learn and understand, like when I got older. If you're dating somebody, when you I tried to do that I don't, I don't feel like you shouldn't, you shouldn't post your secret online, like even when you marry, like even if it goes as far as being buried, because a lot of people out here be hating or you know and they don't want you with that person or they don't want that person with you and they'll just, you know, do any and everything to sabotage what you got going on, your relationship or whatever. Especially if you y'all are friends and y'all are trying to make something happen. And as soon as you post like any kind of pictures like y'all chilling on social media or y'all are trying to make something happen, and as soon as you post like any kind of pictures like y'all chilling on social media or y'all around each other, then you always got that one motherfucker that want to just come in and be like oh, you know uh, or you know this person used to talk to uh or uh, you talk to her or you talk to him, you hang around him, like it always be some messy shit, even dudes. Oh, bro, you talk to so-and-so or you book with so-and-so, or y'all just kicking it. Or when you start hanging with this person and it just be motherfuckers, just behave.

Speaker 1: 2:34

These days it's like nobody wants to see nobody happy, everybody want to just be all the people business and it just it's just crazy. Like you can't post nobody that you're interested in or you're talking to or going on just crazy. Like you can't post nobody that you're interested in or you're talking to or going on dates with children. You can't post nothing because people be so ready to sabotage and fuck up whatever you got going on. They would do idiot everything, especially if they want that person. They want that person and they ain't been giving them no play and no type of nothing. And then all of a sudden they see you all of a sudden posting videos and this, this, and that they come oh no, no, ain't no way I've been liking on this person. They be looking at it like no, this person, no, uh-uh, I got to try to do something or say something to try to fuck their head up so they ain't messing with this person. People out here is crazy. They really do shit like that.

Speaker 1: 3:33

And then don't let you be married, you married to somebody. It seems like when you get in a relationship or when you marry, that's when everybody start flocking. Everybody want to talk to you and fuck up something. But when you single and you ain't messing with nobody, you ain't dating nobody, everybody be it's just dry. Or the people that's coming towards you or coming trying to holler at you or whatever you know that shit dry, it's lame, it's like I don't know, uh-uh, keep on moving, keep on trucking. But then it's like people that you're not interested in.

Speaker 1: 4:00

But then as soon as you talking to somebody, or you dating somebody that you really kind of interested in and you trying to see how it's going to go, or you end up getting engaged and shit like that oh dog, I'm talking about motherfuckers. Be like oh, radars go up. It's like they know. It's like it happened. Like instantly, like, sometimes within minutes I'm not bullshit Like, especially if you're, if you post them, they just like. It's like I'm talking about. Like people just instantly, oh, so-and-so, they talk, they engage this, this and that. So then they gotta oh yeah, let me start posting this, or get jumping their inbox and all that type of shit.

Speaker 1: 4:43

Why, who, how does that make? I mean, I don't understand it. Like, why not jump in that person's inbox. When they are single. They don't have nothing going on. They ain't talking to nobody. You ain't seeing them posting shit. Like they not doing nothing. Like when they are posting stuff, it's they always by theyself, they always treating theyself, they always doing stuff by theyself, not, you know, showing nobody and nothing like. It's just them or them and their kids.

Speaker 1: 5:10

If that's what you tend to do, show your kids like, why not date, try to date them or talk to them around that time, or try to be cool with them and go out around that time? Why wait to a person? You see somebody out with somebody, be like, oh yeah, they fucking with this person. Today I've seen them been chilling the last couple spots. I've seen them. If they was, they was with each other and stuff like that. Or you see them post a picture. So now all of a sudden, you want to get up in their inbox or you want to try to holler them out on the low when you see them in public and stuff like that.

Speaker 1: 5:39

What part of the game is it if a person you talking to somebody or they not well, they not actually talking to them or dating them or whatever, and it's just like they on some friendship, they cool in or whatever. Then that just needs to be said. Or you have certain situations, like I've been in where before in my life where a person would be like, oh, that's my baby mama, or I stayed her. I hate that shit too. You gotta watch them, motherfuckers too. That's my baby mama, I stayed her, but I'm on there for the kids because I ain't got nowhere to go right now. Or I just got out of jail and I'm trying to find my own shit, and that's the way it be.

Speaker 1: 6:16

All types of shit motherfuckers be coming up with and the whole time they be lying and then the baby mama be looking at you like you, trifling bitch like you. Why the fuck would you do this if you know I was talking to this motherfucker first of all, this motherfucker told me that they don't talk to you no more. Or she don't talk to you no more, they just around for the kids, or they just around you know to to make sure everything go good, or they really don't at that point not using you, but you don't want them to go nowhere. You want to make sure they straight on their feet and you know that they doing what the fuck they want to do because they single, but they just, y'all just live together. Motherfuckers don't be knowing shit like that. They just be thinking shit be how this person is trying to fuck up what I got going on. No, nigga, this motherfucking ass line, motherfucker done, said this and it ain't even true and got me thinking one thing, got you thinking one thing.

Speaker 1: 7:06

You thinking I'm trifling, I'm thinking you doing some trifling shit to this person. Like man, that's messed up, they running over you like this. So they not, they know, don't you know, appreciate you, and this isn't it not knowing none of that, like that it'd be, it'd be crazy out here, man, y'all gotta, you, gotta watch. I just learned my god, like I said, I had to learn the hard way when it come to my meat. But yeah, that's a big question of mine.

Speaker 1: 7:29

I'm gonna have to like touch base on that again, like part two with some guests, because I never really understood that and I mean, do you think that a lot of people some people try to talk to other people, get out of their inbox or try to talk to them out in public once they see them with somebody, because they feel like I want to see if I got. I want to see if I can get, get them, even though they with somebody. Like the people I mean, is that what y'all do it for? I mean that's shit weird. Like, stay in your own space. Why go fuck up somebody else? Shit. Because you see them now that they happy or they trying to date somebody or talk to somebody, but you wasn't even worried about them before. Uh, you know, 10 minutes ago, two days ago, it don't matter, like you wasn't even worried about this person. So now, all of a sudden, you see them happy. Now you worried about them and now you want to be out in that inbox and shit, or they're gonna going to start posting more. So now you want to. Okay, let me do this, let me do that. That shit weird as fuck.

Speaker 1: 8:29

And then when you're married, I hate them. Fucking fake ass friends that know you married somebody but then they be out doing that extra ass shit to your husbands and shit or fiancés that extra. It is a such thing as being too fucking friendly. I don't care what nobody say. It's a such thing as being too motherfucking friendly, like if you one of them homegirls and I know we cool or whatever bitch. Don't be all up in the person I'm talking to inbox. Why the fuck are you in their inbox like that? Stay your motherfucking ass out their inbox. If any, you need to say anything to the person that I'm dating or you have any kind of question about this, this and that, or there's something that needs to be said. Motherfucker, inbox me, text me. Don't be inboxing the person that I'm talking to, asking them questions or sending like.

Speaker 1: 9:14

Every time they post off some shit you like it and love I mean liking is one thing, but every fucking thing that they like they post, post and shit you're liking, loving and commenting on everything. That's like doing too much To me. That's like signs Then, yeah, then what are the signs? What are the signs of motherfuckers that be doing like low-key, ho shit like that? I'm gonna tell you one thing. That's one of them for social media you liking everything, loving everything, inboxing the motherfucker every time they post something and just trying to be a hundred percent on everything they do. Why the fuck are you so infatuated with the person's page that I'm dating? That shit, right, there should be a. That's a sign right there.

Speaker 1: 10:00

And then, like, you constantly, always got something to say about this person and their page and this, this and that. Why does it fucking matter? Like that's, if you dating that person, if somebody else is dating that person, why the fuck are you worried about everything that they doing on their page? Like I said, this is one thing If you say you and that best friend or whatever think this person doing some post shit or whatever. Y'all you know whole shit or whatever y'all you know. But when you ain't on no shit like that and you just doing shit, just to be doing shit or also slick-ass shit, man, y'all gotta watch these motherfuckers, y'all gotta watch them, y'all gotta watch them. I'm telling you they be the ones that be on that whole shit and you just be like. You gotta just sit and be like, no, you know what, nope, nope, nope.

Speaker 1: 10:47

And then what part of the game, like what, how friendly is being too friendly? Because if I'm dating you and you all cheesy and smelly, all in the next motherfucking face when we around other people and all that type of shit, you doing a little bit too motherfucking much. You need to slow your roll, slow your ass down or kick rocks because I can, you can smile and be nice and and be, you know cool, be your genuine self. But I hate when motherfuckers try to play that card. We're like, oh, I'm just, that's just me. I'm just friendly, I'm just really, I'm just nice. I mean, that's just, that's just how I am, that's just my um. You know, my zodiac sign is this. So that's just how we are. We just real. Now, hell, now you can be one. Your zodiac sign can be whatever the fuck. It is just like I'm a libra and it's one thing.

Speaker 1: 11:37

When you doing the most and you know you're doing the most, and then a motherfucker is only going to do what you let them do too, you have to watch. I hate when people try to play victim, when people be flirting, doing extra shit, and then they try to sit there, act like they don't know why they acting that way or they don't know why they do it. Motherfucker, they acting like that and they doing that because the way you're you making them feel like it's okay. I don't oh my gosh, like if you one of them motherfuckers where you tell you don't know how to put a motherfucker in they place either. When you dating somebody, you scared to put a motherfucker in they place and let them know, hey, hey, that shit ain't gonna fly with me. You know my girl here, or you know this, my girl, nah, nah, don't be doing all that whole ass shit. Nah, you need to stay. Stay your ass in your place.

Speaker 1: 12:20

That shit is real disrespectful. That's the type of motherfucker I want around me. Like baby, come on. Like like let it be known, because I'm talking about that shit right there. You fuck around and get something else I'm talking about. Like okay, yeah, like people out here, they don't be on that type of shit. Like you gotta put people in their place, because if you don't put a person in their place, they're gonna feel like any and everything that they're doing you're allowing and you're okay with it.

Speaker 1: 12:45

So then, when a motherfucker try to be on some slick shit, try to fuck with you or try to low-key flirt and do this extra shit, then you wanna act out boo-boo the fool and act like you, confused on why they acting like that, or why this motherfucker was doing this, or why this person oh, they tried to hook me up with this person on the slide or when you wasn't around. Of course, motherfucker, because when they was flirting with you, when you was around, shit, and you was with your significant other, the person you fuck with, if they felt like shit, you didn't give a fuck about that person being around, so why wouldn't they try to hook you with one of of their friends and shit like that? They feel like, oh, it ain't serious that motherfucker, because shit, they flirting with me Like hell, no, these motherfuckers here they be doing the most. If that's the type of energy that you bring to the table when you're dating somebody or talking to somebody, hell, no, keep that shit away from me, because that shit is for the birds, that shit is not cool at all. I give a fuck what nobody say and how they feel. Rather, you're single or you're married. It is a too friendly ass, motherfucker that yeah, you, you all it's there's too much. You can't be doing, it can't be doing all that extra friendly ass shit. No, because, yeah, that that means you need to grounds for termination. So, fuck, you mean like on some real shit, real spill shit. Like yeah, you gotta watch people these days.

Speaker 1: 14:02

These motherfuckers out here be oh, I'm just, I'm just cool and and oh, well, that's just my character, that's just how I am, like I'm not for to be no asshole to nobody. No, you don't. You're right, you don't have to be, you don't have to be an asshole to nobody, but you need to make sure you come correct and you step a one, you know, when it comes to motherfuckers. Because, shit, if they feel like you ain't stepping on your ground and on the real shit, they gonna fucking treat you and they gonna act how they want to fucking act and they not gonna give a fuck what you say, how you feel, and at that point they're not even really gonna respect the other person that you're dating. Because if they feel like, if they, if you're not respecting them, they don't give a fuck, they're not gonna respect them. That's honestly, that's how they feel like you, I'm, you're not. That's how they feel you're not respecting them. So, shit, if you're not respecting the person that you're dating, why the fuck am I gonna respect them? You don't give a fuck. You don't give a fuck about what they're doing, and I mean, you don't give a fuck about the shit y'all got going on, so I, why should I give a fuck? So I'm gonna sit here and flirt and do this, this and that. That's how people think and that's how that's the type of shit they do.

Speaker 1: 15:11

And when you in a play victim and act like, oh no, that, that no, I ain't see that. I ain't see that. I ain't catch that. I ain't catch that. No, because I don't be looking at that type of shit. No, motherfucker, you be looking at that type of shit. You probably not 100% be looking, but you seen some shit or you know some shit. Your ass just didn't want to because you like the shit.

Speaker 1: 15:33

You like motherfuckers acting like that and if that's the case, a person that's like that you honestly need to be single on some real shit. You don't need to be in no relationship, you don't need to be trying to entertain nobody. You need to stay to your motherfucking self and you need to stay single because you like all that extra ass flirtation shit. You like motherfuckers to be all on you trying to flirt with you and shit when you in a relationship and you got your significant other around. And if that shit, if shit like that is cool, then y'all ass. You need to be single. You don't need to be with nobody, because why are you hurting? Why stress somebody out and had him hurt behind you be talking about? Oh well, I'm just extra friend, I'm just friendly, like that's just my character. That's my zodiac sign. Now, motherfucker, you just need to be to your motherfucking self and then just stay, stay like that.

Speaker 1: 16:23

But then what gets me is motherfuckers that play victim, act like they don't know that they're being too fucking cool and too flirty with a person or a friend or somebody that's around or whatever. But then soon as they see you do any little thing it don't have to be for the type of patients or anything any little thing. Oh yeah, you smiling, all this motherfucking face, or you just, every time I'll make jokes. You just, hey, hey, kiki laughing and shit. Like what the fuck? I laugh because of a joke, I laugh because of a joke.

Speaker 1: 16:54

So now I'm blurting with this person, but you will sit there and be staring at motherfuckers and all in their face and letting them get close to you and they have to have them there rubbing their ass on you and shit. And you just okay with oh well, nah, I ain't looking like that, I ain't see. Nah, motherfucker, hell, nah, you keep your ass in your place and let that shit stay how it is. Motherfucker, you know what the hell is going on. You just trying to play boo-hoo the fool and act like you don't know what the fuck is going on, but hell, no, that is not what it is. Yeah, man, we gonna have.

Speaker 1: 17:24

Man, this conversation here is gonna have to be yeah, this gonna it's gonna be a part two to this one y'all, because I mean we have to. This is so big. Yeah, we need to talk about this because I got man, we need to talk about this because I got man. I just got some questions to ask people like how, how cool is too cool, what's flirtatious and what ain't like it's like I said even like with the social media thing, it's like you doing the most up on the people's comments and shit like that, or you know, or whatever, and posting like little hearts or loving stuff or whatever.

Speaker 1: 17:56

When you in a relationship, are you married? Is it okay? When you like somebody's stuff, are you just supposed to like it or are you doing a heart, putting a heart on it? Is that too much or does it matter? Like what's what's too much and what's not? You know what I'm saying. Like it's just, yeah, we gotta have uh.

Speaker 1: 18:12

Uh, yeah, this gonna have to be a part two and I have I'm gonna have to have some guests on here because, yeah, we're going to have to have a conversation about this one, because I just want to know where do we sit, where does this sit at? Because I know people it's a lot of people out here that think like me. I know it's a lot of people out here that think like me because this shit here is getting out of hand, with motherfuckers that act like ain't nothing going on and they don't understand. And I ain't do this, I ain't do that, I ain't do that. Oh, I just post this, I just post this, so I just tag man every time you post a motherfucking selfie.

Speaker 1: 18:42

Why are you tagging the person that somebody else is dating? Like you tagging people if you want them to see something that you're from you posting there's not no fucking promotion. Like you're not promoting shit. Like you ain't promoting a business or something like that. I mean, even even if you are promoting a business, you got on t-shirts or it's the clothing line or some shit like that why the fuck are you tagging a person's best friend or tagging this person? Like you can tag them, but damn, a photo that's you, just you. Hell. Nah, yeah, you gotta, like I said, you gotta watch motherfuckers because, uh, these motherfuckers out here be doing the most and that shit is not cool and that shit is for the birds, because I have quick to all year.

Speaker 1: 19:29

Now this means, yeah, people, done played on my top too too. You know, done played on my top too many times. Now ain't nobody playing that shit and then going into that? Sis, bro, shit, all that extra shit on social media? Nah, fuck that nigga. If y'all didn't come out the same whatever, whatever, who I? Yeah, nah, fuck all that, y'all ain't related, or at least y'all don't have the same daddy, y'all ain't related. That shit, anything can happen, anything goes. And then, fuck all that shit talking about for the bros? Nah, nah, nigga shit talking about for the bros. No, no, nigga, no, bro, sis, this, this and that y'all just y'all doing too much. But all right, y'all. Like I said, we're gonna have to have a part two to this because, yeah, I gotta get some people's opinions on this shit, because I just been thinking about it. It's like, yeah, we, we gotta go there, we gotta go there, but it's your girl, dj cornbread, aka the empress, and I'm out this bitch bye.