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Church Hypocrisy Exposed
What does it truly mean to be godly? DJ Cornbread (aka the Empress) challenges listeners to examine the disconnect between religious identity and authentic behavior in this thought-provoking episode. With unflinching honesty, she addresses the painful reality of religious hypocrisy—those who present themselves as particularly devout while judging others for behaviors they themselves engage in behind closed doors.
The conversation navigates complex questions about faith and authenticity: Does merely attending church make someone spiritually superior? Can someone be genuinely faithful without ever stepping foot in a church building? What happens when those who claim to represent God's love are the very ones making others feel unwelcome or judged? DJ Cornbread doesn't shy away from pointing out how this hypocrisy has driven countless people away from organized religion, particularly those from marginalized communities who often feel most judged.
With wisdom and vulnerability, she reminds listeners that everyone is "working on themselves" and that spiritual growth is a journey rather than a destination. The episode challenges religious performativity in favor of authentic faith that welcomes rather than excludes. As DJ Cornbread puts it, "You should be able to go to any church and have a good time and be blessed in the spirit"—a simple yet profound reminder of what religious communities should aspire to be.
Whether you're a regular churchgoer, someone who's been hurt by religious hypocrisy, or simply curious about the intersection of faith and authenticity, this episode offers valuable perspectives on what it truly means to practice what you preach. Join the conversation and share your thoughts on these important questions about godliness, judgment, and living an authentic faith.
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The Shit Show. The podcast starts now with DJ Cornbread, aka the Empress. Hey, hey, ladies and gentlemen, it's the Big man. This is the largest fashion show of the podcast. Say the sound of the beats. What's up y'all? It's your girl. Dj Cornbread, aka aka the Empress. Y'all already know what time it is. This is going to be a bow.
Speaker 1:I don't know if you would call it false prophets I wouldn't probably say that. But what do y'all think about people that go to church and they are supposed to be so godly but they do things that you wouldn't, or that, in their mind, church people aren't supposed to do? So I'm talking about the ones that they're so spiritual and they're so this and that they say they bought a book but then you up in a lot to somebody or you'll do some, some stuff that's not, that's not the ordinary for a person. That's you know. So it's church. Like what do you call those people? Because how do you refer to yourself? Or people look at you? Or you want people to look at you like you're just so godly and but you're doing things that you will look at another person that they were doing and be like uh-uh, see, they just need guys. Nope, they just need the I just pray for them kind of people. But if you turn around and you do the same type of stuff, what does that make you? That stuff like it confuses me Because I'm like I understand some people.
Speaker 1:I mean, a lot of people are working on themselves and they're not just like 100% Nobody's perfect, but God. So I understand, like, if people have certain things they're going through and they're doing and they're trying to get to their you know that state where they feel like they're 100% and God's hands are like you know. But if you're a person that is a backslider I guess that's what they used to call them. Well, my mom you know, having conversations with her when she was living A backslider or whatever, do you have the right to downlook someone for doing anything or any type of thing when you are also doing the same type of things? But you call yourself to be so godly, how does that work? Like somebody really needs to talk about that and say something about that. I mean really needs to talk about that and say something about that. I mean it needs to be an actual, uh, bigger conversation about it. I need to get some people on the line that you know, have some day they got something to say, because I'm, I'm starting to like, are they? Are there even any really truly godly people?
Speaker 1:Because if you are doing all the things that you claim that to not be godly, are you doing some of the things you know, some things that aren't godly in your book, and then you see other people doing, but then you're supposed to be so saint, so perfect, 100, but you do those things. So I'm, I'm so confused. So what is it? But are they? I mean, is it they looking at certain problem? Okay, it's right.
Speaker 1:Depending on this, depending on if this going on and why I'm lying or why I'm doing this, should they be on the same, be looked at the same and judged the same exact way as another person that they're trying to judge because they've done that? Or are they supposed to be a better person just because they go to church four times a month, three times a month? Church four times a month, three times a month. I mean then, also with that too, what if you're a person like you, are trying to get your life right, or you say, you're telling people that you're, you're just 100% for him and you don't go to church? It's so there's some people where that is okay.
Speaker 1:You don't have to actually be going to church and stepping foot in a side of a church, you know to say that this, I'm getting my life right, I'm a right life right with christ and I've been baptized, and this isn't it. You know, you don't have to just be going to church every day. Some people they have they got in their life right or they have their life right and they switch. You know tables and tables have turned and they on the right track and they don't go to church at all, but they read their bible every day, they practice their bible, they go, they do everything you know in the bible that god is asking of us, like so I mean, does that make them different? Because, oh, you don't go to church, so you're not.
Speaker 1:I don't know how can you be 100 for him if you're not even stepping in his house? I mean, is that right? Because you're not supposed to judge people either. So if you are, also, if you're a person that's so godly and churchy, churchy and things like that, how are you judging somebody and have your nose turned, turned up at somebody else because they're not what you want them to be? That doesn't make sense to me either. So we I mean what y'all think, I mean it is supposed to be okay just because a person that's godly, the way they do it, if they do it a little bit, tad bit different, or they get they got, they can jump through hoops and do this, isn't it because they are, they feel like they're closer to him.
Speaker 1:I mean I'm so confused and how, and do you I mean I honestly, do y'all think it's okay to get it, get advice from a person that's godly and they go to church and, you know, say this isn't it? Is it okay to get advice for those type of people if they are doing negative things or not saying about a book, or I mean, nope, is that supposed to be okay? No, is it okay, no or no? If they're not strictly about a book, you shouldn't be getting any type of information or or asking them anything. For people like that, what do y'all think? Do y'all think that's?
Speaker 1:I mean that's the thing, because I feel like everybody, some people are in your life for a reason, some for a season, and everybody's not meant to be in your life for your lifetime. So God might send some people in your life just to teach you a lesson, and it always does not have to be good. And I've had to learn that because, just because you feel like I used to man, somebody can be brought into my life and I'm like, oh well, god wouldn't have brought him here or brought her here if it wasn't meant to be or they weren't supposed to be around me. I know relationships. I said I'm just talking about period. Anybody could have been a dog, okay, you know. So you never know, but it's like, oh yeah, he brought him. This is why, this is why this is why he brought him here, you know. So it's like, okay, this is why you, this will be. He brought him here because it is, but a lot of the times and sometimes gotta bring somebody into your life or have somebody around you and just to show you, because he's trying to open your eyes, to show you certain stuff, but you're not listening.
Speaker 1:I had to learn that as well, because I thought everyone that came in my life were meant good by me. And they were. He was sending them because a good thing, you know, this is a good person and that's why, you know, he. He put them in my life, you know, because they are good for me, like they're. It can be, like I said, it can be, business relationship. It can be anything, but a lot of the times and saying it's a lot of times I'm wondering everybody don't have the same kind of look I have, but sometimes they're not. I mean, that's not even the issue, that is not even the reason. Like I said, people are in your life for a season, a reason, and it's just like you have to understand, like being, I feel, like being saying you're just also 100% a church person, a church woman or man, and this, this and that.
Speaker 1:But then you go, do certain things or you lie, and then a lot of church people say, oh well, you can't be drinking, and this, this, this, that I don't drink. I don't see how people go to church and they call themselves saved, or this, this, that, and they're drinking alcohol or they're doing this, they're going out to clubs or going out to bars, well, this, this, this that I mean. So what does that make you if, say, someone that does go to your church has something and they have it at a bar, or they have it at a lounge, not a club, but you know a place where everybody's going to eat and this, this and that. What if they have something like that and are you not able to go because the type of person that you are, because of the church and things like that. Oh well, since I'm like this, no, we can't go to stuff like that. So I won't be able to go to your dinner because it's a lounge, y'all trying to do karaoke. That's not Godly, so I can't do stuff like that.
Speaker 1:Like I mean I, we need to get, we need to have more conversations and stuff like that about what's going on, because I mean I'm I'm kind of kind of confused because me, at this point in this age, how are you supposed to? I mean, no, you can find out stuff by a person and be like what that person's so godly and and this isn't that. And every time I have a conversation with them, they it's always this and it's always that and pray and and come to church, and this is never too quick to do some off the wall stuff or a lie. And may don't just say this so that I'm just gonna make this up because I really don't want to talk to her. I'm gonna make stuff. I really don't want her over here. So then does that make you still? You still godly pricing you still like a hundred percent for him? Or, like I said, does it have a? It's a code. Oh well, that part of the code, the godly code.
Speaker 1:If you lie or you do people like that only a couple times a month or once a month, then you get a pass. You good like is this, that is that how it's supposed to work, because that ain't right, that ain't right. You, working on yourself, just like everybody else working on themselves, like you, can't be judging people and doing or doing certain things to people because of that. That is not okay and to me that's like a fake person, like a fake kind of like a fake prophet. So you know, it's just like I don't like I mean, it's not the same thing, but you see what I'm saying, like it's just like if a person was like I'm not't know, I don't deal with prophets, and this is me If you're a person from church and you always got something to say to somebody and he always got the word and you always got this and listen to this and listen to that.
Speaker 1:And because he said in the Bible, he said but if you turn around and you'll do this. That's real. But are you practicing it? Are you just making people think that you're practicing it, is it? But then behind closed doors. When you're around certain people or children or people that don't understand what's really going on and what you're doing, that's when you can do your little edgy stuff, because, hey, it's behind closed doors. That ain't right, that is not what's up at all, it's all. And, like I said, there needs to be a whole situation, conversation about all of that, because I don't understand what it is with people that just feel like, oh, I'm saved and I've got baptized, and then that some people just feel like any and everything goes, they can do whatever they want and say whatever they want and they just 100%, you know, by him. But then you turn around and steady doing stuff, steady doing negative stuff, steady doing stuff that's not godly and that's not of him. But you are, and they be the main ones that always have something to say and always have a situation going on.
Speaker 1:But in you real being to be in somebody's business or telling somebody else's business somebody else, is that also? Is that a thing? Is that a thing? Do church people? They said that they're the messiest ones, they be gossiping and stuff like is. Is that a thing? Are you supposed to be doing something like that? If you're godly, are you supposed to be? Um, are you supposed to be, uh, sitting there being all messy? And this isn't it. When you are a woman of god, or I mean, it has to be levels to this stuff, man, it has to be some type of you. You're not supposed to be doing this, are you not? I mean, you can't.
Speaker 1:I just feel like people can't be going around just saying they just like 100 percent this and that and trying to practice certain things, teach this, teach that but then you, on the back end, you're doing this Because I could say I can tell you I've been baptized and I'm working on me and I might not 100 percent. I drink wine and you know I say something like that, but it's like but it's like randomly, you know like you can say certain things or you do this, but it's not saying that. Oh well, I'm not going to be turning my nose up and looking at a person a different kind of way just because I see them do this, or I see them at this spot and I'm like, oh, she know better. She was just at church, screaming and getting a holy ghost, and I, but she now I see her drinking a glass of wine while they're eating at cheddars or something like. Like, I mean, is that I wouldn't do?
Speaker 1:I mean, I'm not, that ain't me, but you have certain people that'll do that, and that's the bad thing about that is is that's why these days, a lot of people don't like going to church. They don't like going to church because they feel like especially if you are a lgbtq or anything, or you're just a person that don't like, you know, don't like certain things that the ways that some people don't even like certain. They don't like certain ways that people church, people at certain church people because they'll sit there and try like they don't practice what they preach, and that's the main thing. But when it comes to other individuals, some of them don't feel comfortable going because of the way that people act when they are around them and when they're in church. They make them feel less than make them feel like they're not supposed to be there, like they're not a person like that. What part of going to church and part of god is that right, I mean? But then you have those that also look at it. Well, god, you weren't supposed to be like it loving on a woman or like it on a woman, and the man's supposed to be like a man and things like that. So they feel like if you're doing that and they're saying in the bible, they feel like in a bible, that's not what god said and that's not what's for. That's not right. So they make people that are like that when they come to church to make them feel like they're less than so.
Speaker 1:That's why certain people don't be want to go to church. That's why, soon as that, you have certain people that will sit there. They feel more comfortable watching church in their room, in their bed, in their chair, at the pool and just listen. I mean, I'm like it don't matter. They feel in the mounds, I don't care where it is. They feel more comfortable watching their pastor or someone or something that has to do with church. On weekends, every day bible study wednesday. Bible study monday, whenever. They feel more comfortable doing that alone, in their own space, because they feel like they're going to be judged when they go to an actual building or go to an actual church.
Speaker 1:And that's sad because you can't even invite people places these days. You invite them to a church or something and they might feel, oh yeah, they don't look at me and feel like this and think like this and I don't even want to go through it. And that's sad, it's like that. It shouldn't even be like that. You should be able to go to any church and and have a good time and be blessed in the spirit and just have you know, just be able to. You know, do you? I mean I just, I don't understand these days, like I just, like I said, I just think I feel like people should be practicing what they preach. Like if you that's, that's what it all boils I mean don't have nothing to do with me and what I have going on and how like God's working on me and how much I go to church, this is it.
Speaker 1:I feel like if you are letting people know or trying to make people feel like you're just 100% for him, you need to be a person that's practicing what you preach. Don't be sitting there trying to preach things to people but then on the back end you're doing all this extra stuff and stuff like that, like you can say you know anything. You know to make someone feel this kind of way, or or you know to do, but oh, you need to. I feel like you do better. I'm gonna pray for you. I'm not talking about stuff like that. I'm talking about looking down on people and turning your nose up at people just because of certain things that they do that you're also doing. So y'all need to get that right. Y'all need to get that in check and once I find me, somebody that can actually see they they on the same page as me and we can go there on this kind of conversation I'm gonna have to come back with a part two with some church women and men or somebody from you know, and we're going to have to have a whole conversation about this because we need to know what's going on and get on this situation. But y'all already know what it is it's your girl.
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