FaShItShO tha PoDcAsT

Real Support: Actions Over Words

FASHITSHO THE PODCAST Season 1 Episode 18

“SPEAK YO FACTS “

What does it truly mean to support someone in today's digital age? In this raw and unfiltered episode, DJ Kornbread (aka The Empress) dives deep into the painful reality of fake support from those closest to us. She tackles the frustrating phenomenon of friends and family who claim they "fuck with you" but never actually demonstrate that support through simple actions like sharing posts or promoting your business.

The conversation explores a fundamental question many entrepreneurs and creators face: why do the people who claim to care about us often fail to take even the smallest actions to support our endeavors? DJ Kornbread contrasts this behavior with how quickly these same individuals will promote celebrities they'll never meet or products they can't afford, yet remain silent when it comes to supporting the dreams of those in their immediate circle.

This thought-provoking examination of modern relationships highlights the increasingly transactional nature of support, where many won't lift a finger unless they're getting something in return. Kornbread makes a compelling case that true friendship and family bonds should transcend this mentality. You don't need to personally love someone's business or creative direction to show support—sharing their content or mentioning their services requires minimal effort but demonstrates genuine care for their success.

Whether you're an entrepreneur feeling unsupported by your circle or someone wondering if you've been a true friend to others pursuing their dreams, this episode will challenge you to examine the authenticity in your relationships. As DJ Kornbread says, "If you fuck with me, I'll fuck with you"—a simple but powerful reminder that support should be a two-way street built on genuine actions, not empty words. Subscribe now and join us for our upcoming live show with special guests!

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Speaker 1:

Hey, hey man, this is BASTAPLED. I'm the BASTAPLED man. This is the largest fashion show of the podcast. Say, I'm the BASTAPLED. What's up y'all? It's your girl, dj Kornbread, aka, aka the Empress. Y'all already know what it is. Back with another one we are going to get into this. I don't know if I what I want to call this show.

Speaker 1:

Honestly, it's like are you with me or against me? Like I don't understand why. You know, when people say they fuck with you and they support you and different shit like that, and really it's like people be hating, like, but then they be the main ones. Be like I ain't hate, I ain't hating on this, I ain't hating on that, I want to do that shit. I could, even if they don't want to do it. They just be like I ain't hating, I ain't not, care less, I don't give a fuck. But that's not. That's not the issue. The issue to me.

Speaker 1:

What I don't understand is how people it can be a family or friend how can a person say, or anybody say, that they fuck with you and they support you and they don't share shit, they don't post shit, don't shit, get the word out there for anything that you do. Oh yeah, my so-and-so make this, or my so-and-so do this, or my so-and-so know how to DJ, or my you know anything Make shirts, make cups, make cook. My so-and-so make plates. It can be anything that somebody do. A person can say they fuck with you. Family members can say they fuck with you. A friend can say they fuck with you, but they you can't get a motherfucker to share, not a shit. Well, they claim they fuck with you. That's tough boy.

Speaker 1:

When you have, when you feel a certain type of way about something, you have something to say about it, then you can tell the motherfucker that they feel, you know, they know that, damn shit, that's the type of shit. That's how I, that's how we act, you know, because they don't really have shit to say. When you bring up the situation, or you got something to say about it, or, like motherfuckers, be fake motherfuckers, don't you know, fuck with me, or this isn't it. They always gotta one of those guilty conscience ass. You know, you know they just act like uh, yeah, yeah, that's uh, yeah, I know that's right. Or yeah, motherfucker, you know that's right, cause you one of them motherfuckin' suits Shit.

Speaker 1:

Honestly, you ain't sure shit. You don't support, you support, say you support somebody but you ain't sure of a motherfuckin' thing At all. They don't let you do nails or some shit like that or anything like I did weights and hair. It can be any fucking thing that somebody is trying to promote themselves doing or whatever. Oh yeah, I'm gonna fuck with you. You gonna have to do my nails, you gonna have to do my hair. You gonna have to do this. I don't even fucking care if you make fucking postcards. I'm gonna take one of your postcards, you know, next time I mail some what? I'm gonna care if you make fucking postcards. Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna take one of your postcards. You know, next time I mail some stuff, I'm gonna have to use some of your sticker, like it can be any motherfucking thing.

Speaker 1:

People will say whatever the fuck they want to say. It doesn't make you feel like oh yeah, I fucking don't support you and don't support shit. I'm talking about nothing and you done. Gave so much shit out Like the motherfuckers and I ain't seen a motherfucker share post shit To tag. Nobody Like support her, you know, to friends and shit, but you be quick to get some free shit. I'm talking about motherfuckers. Be quick to get some free shit Now if you ask for it. That's different. You know, if it's something that you purchased, you know. Still, you would think that a person, if they purchase something or whatever, like damn, shout a motherfucking out, you know anything.

Speaker 1:

But yeah, people these days, they, they, they not just do none of that bullshit, they like said they'd be happy to get some shit or whatever that they paid for or whatever the thing might be, and concur motherfucking list by doing any fucking thing or supporting your shit or any any of that shit. And I just I don't, I don't understand why people are like this. It's like these days, people like people concur less if you, if they did this or they did that, they concur fucking less. It's like if they're not making anything off of it or it's not benefiting them and they're not making no money and no shit like that. It's like these days, motherfuckers, they be on a whole nother level. So shit, they like.

Speaker 1:

Oh well, shit, I'm not gonna post that shit. If I post that shit, if somebody buy something off that post that I, that I do shit, that shit. Don't give me no money, you ain't gonna give me no money. I don't give a fuck about none of that. If I fuck with you and I support you and you posted clothes, hats, socks, drawers, I don't care what it is. If I fuck with you, then I'm I sure.

Speaker 1:

Now sometimes it might be a, you know, a situation or a time where I can't see every fucking thing somebody posts. Like now, if you thoroughly like, send it to my phone and like, hey, it's my new shit, I'm doing this and check this out, uh, and it's something you for sure know that you won't post it and promote it or something like that. Let me know, because some people they might, you know, send stuff, stuff and you it might not be ready, they might not want people to know about it yet it might be, you know, might be a little more, they might have to do a little more stuff to it before they they put it out there. Because then people you know buck around and be like, oh, where is it at it, at the person that's selling it, I want to buy it now. And they be like, oh, no, no, it ain't ready, that's the only one I got, you know, some shit like that.

Speaker 1:

So if you even send some shit directly to my phone, like you got to tell me, because I don't like fucking up people's stuff with whatever they got going. You got to thoroughly tell me I can't read, so if that's you want, you want to promote it. You got to say, oh yeah, this is what I'm fucking with, this is what I got going right now. I got this for sale, this for sale, this, this and that, and you say some shit like that. Then you send me some oh, ok, yeah, that mean his shit ready or her shit ready. That's what she is. She trying to. Is this her business? She trying to get it out. Look for nothing to come with it.

Speaker 1:

Like I don't give a fuck what's our shirt and the 505 people, 5 000 motherfuckers, inbox you and say, hey, can I buy it? Can I buy? I don't want you to give me a bitch ass thing, I'm just showing love. I'm showing love. I get blessed, you know, but it's these motherfuckers. These days it's like you have to be getting something in return, like they have to be getting something from you for them to show love, to show that they could, for you or their family or their friends or any of that shit. And that shit is fucking whack. It's fucked to me. I do not, and some, and if people wonder why I stay to myself. I don't fuck with nobody. I don't. I just don't. I just I don't know. I think you want to just stay away because motherfuckers be so fucking fake and flat family and friends, so just like I mean motherfuckers, like I said, they're gonna support who they want to support and they gonna do what the fuck they want to do.

Speaker 1:

And I seen this shit so many times. A, a motherfucker will assure somebody's shit that they don't even fucking know, a celebrity's shit that they ain't never met, or some shit they can't even afford to wear or buy. They assure that shit real quick or assure of anything, but they can't even assure a fucking family member's business photo. They can be doing any fucking thing, they won't shout them out of that shit. Friends, same motherfucking thing. You assure somebody for the shit that you don't even know, that you wish you could be friends with, but can't, they can't even fucking make it to top two. Touch none of that shit. You make sure you share that shit all up and down motherfucking timeline, but you ain't gonna share, no, the person that you damn red talk to on a daily shit or whatever, oh, because what? You're not getting any money now.

Speaker 1:

It ain't like a motherfucker, like, hey, go promote my shit, get my shit out there, do this, do this, do that. I'm talking about like one motherfucking time promoting this randomly and they're like, oh yeah, just hey, you had that shit on whatever. Oh yeah, promote this. This isn't it just, uh, you know, just to show hashtagging or some shit like that to tag the person name. Motherfuckers don't do nothing, like nothing like this. And I low-key that's. I mean sometimes I'll be thinking it'd be on some hating shit.

Speaker 1:

But if it ain't no shit that you really fuck with like that or something that you really don't even give a fuck about, you shouldn't even be hating them, hating on it. If somebody, one of your friends or family members or something, doing some shit like that or whatever, and you sure why the fuck would you get mad if it blow up or whatever the case, whatever they doing this, isn't it why you gonna get mad at that when it's some shit you don't fuck with any fucking way. So that's why it's like damn, is it a hating thing or is it just like you just really a fucking liar and you really don't fuck with your friends or your family like that and they all let you just fake in the front and when you motherfuckers get behind closed doors they be laughing and talking or saying other little shit about the, the person or the situation on some fake ass shit. That's fake as fuck to me and I don't give a fuck if you're a family member or you're a friend. That's your fake little bitch like. At least, if you ain't gonna like the shit, tell me. I mean I don't really fuck with it, but I sure, just because your shit just show love, like damn, I respect motherfucking more if they said some shit like that. But for you just to not show no type of love and just be on some like fuck you shit or whatever, I don't give a fuck and like attitude like that shit there is trash, trash is full. And now I see why a lot of people really don't be wanting to fuck with people or to do shit with nobody. Or, you know, try, try to even halfway, half-ass, promote anything or try to show love to other people's shit or, you know, do anything.

Speaker 1:

Because shit is the way people treat you and majority of the time and it's fucked up to say, like I said once before, a lot of the times it's because a motherfucker ain't getting shit out of it. A lot of the times it's because the motherfucker ain't getting shit out of it. But let you tell, hey, I'll throw your ass on payroll to post my shit to sure twice, no-transcript. You want to get paid for that? And, like I said, it might not even be no want to get paid for some shit, it might just be the motherfucker just don't really give a fuck and don't really fuck with you like they say they do, and all this shit is a fucking lie. But that shit, that shit trash as fuck.

Speaker 1:

Like I said, I don't understand why people act like that, why people claim that they fuck with a person and they know, good hell, fucking well, they don't. They don't fuck with them. They know they ain't, ain't real. They'll sit there and try to act like it, act like they real with them and they fuck with them. Ah, this my family, ah this my friend, this my, this is now. I just say shit, shut the fuck up, that shit is all trash. And you say that shit in the motherfucker face and then, as soon as shit hit the fan, and you move around, or you around somebody else, or you and that other motherfucker together somewhere else to y'allself by y'allself, not around this motherfucker then it's a totally different story. Y'all on some other shit. So stop with that bullshit, and that's how I feel about it, and I just don't understand why people these days are so fake.

Speaker 1:

Like I said, family members, friends but all you got to do is just let me know hey, yeah, I'm promoting this shit, I want to do this, I'm trying to do this, or whatever. Hey, yeah, hey, yeah, I promote your shit. I don't have to fucking like it, I don't have to be A100 about it. That's something that you doing, that's something that you trying to put forward this, this and that but that's your passion and that's what you like. You know, that's what you want to do. So, oh, yeah, I from I shared for you and it's a snack. Well, majority of time, like I said, fuck on me, you text me some shit. You let me know yeah, hey, cuz, or hey, hey, home girl, or this, this neck, I'm promoting this right now and this is what I'm doing. Uh, and I'm uh, got something for sale, got this for next. All right, cool, I'll fuck around.

Speaker 1:

You know, I'm just going to share your shit just outside of this, because I'm not going to say well, if I share it, what you going to chunk me if I share it one or two times? You're not asking for no fucking promotion bundle. You're not asking me to promote this motherfucker every day Certain times. You want to post it this time, post it. When you post it like this, put a hashtag on it. Make sure it says this it ain't no instructions to promoting, to showing love to somebody, so it's no instructions.

Speaker 1:

Instructions is when it's a business and when you're trying to pay somebody for promotion, like a package or some shit like that, but just to show love to a family member or a friend and they send you something or you purchase something, you know anything, and then just to share it or even if it ain't even nothing that's purchased or something like that, just talking word of mouth, like people, these family members and friends these days is is like it's like an enemy, like they look at you like any, like there's not nothing that they're doing to somebody. That's like actually around them 24 7. If there ain't nothing, they got going. I don't know. I'm not saying shit. I'm not saying nothing.

Speaker 1:

I don't give a fuck if I come across somebody that needs that type of this or need that. I ain't saying a bitch ass thing. They ain't got shit to do with me. Shit, I don't do it. That's how it's like. That's how I look at that shit. I don't do that shit. So well, I'm gonna put that in somebody that that I know, somebody else that do. I don't fucking. If it is a family member like who is that fucking selfish that they don't want to support their friends or family or nothing like that shit there is trash. I don't understand. I really do not understand that shit is stupid as fuck to me and I don't know. I just I'm not that type of person. I wasn't, I mean, I ain't gonna say raised like that, I just like I don't know. I just feel like, far as me and it might be just some Libra shit I just feel like that shit is wrong to spoke and people shouldn't do no whole ass shit like that. But I said if I fuck with you, I'll fuck with you, but I need.

Speaker 1:

I have a question, though. So like why is? Why do people do shit like that? Why do friends or so-called friends or associates or and family members do shit like that? Why do friends or so-called friends or associates or and family members do shit like that. What's the issue? Like somebody, please call or let me know, hit me up tiktok or something at patricia the podcastcom, something like I said just dj empress. So hit me up somebody, just tell me, like, well, maybe it's because, well, maybe it's because because I really want to hear some of these what ifs or why, and this isn't it, and why this happening, and why motherfuckers act like that? Because that shit that is trash to me. I really do not understand why people do that.

Speaker 1:

But then when you have certain shit, when other motherfuckers have certain shit, and then you don't show up to shit or you don't try to promote shit or anything, you don't want to be a part of it, and then motherfuckers be looking like why does a motherfucker act like this? Why does a motherfucker act like that? You don't know, nigga. You don't know. You're that boo-boo to fool, you confused, or you don't know what the fuck is going on. Yeah, you know what the fuck is going on. That fake ass and family member shit, that shit there is for the birds like hell.

Speaker 1:

No, and if you don't care to share or you don't care to support or that's just like you, just I don't give a fuck really about what you're doing. Please tell me that so I can just 100% stop fucking with you for the rest of my life, because that is exactly what it. That's what it's gonna boil down to, and I just need to know who's fake around me, who's phony, who this, this and that, because I done dropped motherfucking like flies within the last couple years and I sure don't give a fuck about dropping no more. So I'm down there. You know shit by myself or around myself. Anyway, there's only a couple people that I let around me Shit, so I don't really give a fuck.

Speaker 1:

I'd just rather somebody be 100 and say you know what? I don't promote that shit. I don't tell nobody about it because I don't give a fuck. So as long as you tell me that, okay, well, you know what I appreciate you for being 100 about it and letting me know you really don't fuck with me like you say you fuck with me and you really don't care for me or cover me as a relative or a friend. Know that best believe I am the queen of cutoffs and blocks. So I won't give a fuck, which you probably wouldn't either. But shit, I just like people to be 100 with me and let me know if it ain't something you want to promote, ain't something you want to share or you don't give a fuck about. Tell those motherfuckers do this and that. Just please let me know so I know not to fuck with your bitch ass no more and leave where you at and that, like I said, that includes family and friends and I could care less and won't lose no motherfucking sleep because I'm just not that type of person. That's fake, fake as fuck to me. So please let me know.

Speaker 1:

But we got a show coming up. We're gonna we still getting this uh main live show together and y'all just make sure y'all look forward to, y'all be looking at it forward or whatever. Gonna have some guests in the building and then we gonna know have a good time or whatever. It's your girl. Dj Cornbread, aka the Empress for Shit Show the podcast I'm out. This bitch Bow, you're the mix with the one and only celebrity, dj Cornbread, aka the Empress. Hey, hey, man, it I'm the biggest and this is the largest fashion show of the podcast. Say I'm the biggest.

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