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The Ungrateful Guest Chronicles: What Happened When Celebrity Attitude Met Real Friendship
Have you ever had someone show their true colors at the worst possible moment? That's exactly what happened during a recent podcast recording that completely blindsided me and left me questioning who my real friends actually are.
When guests arrive with celebrity attitudes, expecting royal treatment while giving nothing but disrespect in return, it reveals a lot about their character. But what's even more revealing is how people you've considered friends for years respond when witnessing this behavior. Do they stand up for you, or do they suddenly become silent, maintaining relationships with those who've wronged you?
True loyalty isn't measured by how long you've known someone, but rather by their actions when it matters most. I'm sharing this raw, unfiltered experience because so many of us face these difficult situations where friendships are tested and professional boundaries are crossed. The contrast between people like Malika Danielle Photography and The Diamond Heist HB, who showed up with professionalism and dedication, versus those who praised my team on camera while criticizing behind our backs, couldn't be more stark.
This episode dives deep into uncomfortable truths about friendship, loyalty, and setting boundaries with people who demonstrate they don't value your relationship. If you've ever felt betrayed by someone you trusted or struggled with maintaining your dignity when others try to disrespect you on your own platform, you'll find validation and strength in this conversation. Sometimes the most painful experiences offer the clearest vision of who deserves a place in your life moving forward.
Share your own experiences with friendship tests and professional boundaries in the comments—I'd love to hear how you've navigated similar situations and what you've learned along the way.
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The Diamond Heist Company (HB)
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Speaker 1:It's your DJ Cornbread, aka the empress. Oh my god, I just gotta go. I gotta go in. I'm sorry, it's, it's. It's just.
Speaker 1:It's a lot that needs to be said and it's a lot of shit that I don't understand. So first of all, when you come to a person's show or decide to be on their show or whatever you call yourself doing, don't go to nobody's shit, disrespecting them on their own shit, and then don't come acting out celebrity and shit when it's not even that and get mad because you're not treated how you thought you were going to be treated in a city that you're not from, treated how you thought you're going to be treated in a city that you're not from. So I think that might be. That might be a big issue with some people when, when they come and do certain shit and they not, they don't get. I don't know. I don't know that that shit there, but but but anywho. So also, I don't know what the fucking issue is with people that call themselves to be a friend to somebody, or if they just gullible to the next, because if you're friends with somebody or you cool with somebody, say you've been knowing somebody for for a long, a long period of time and say they get introduced to somebody that you know and the person that they got introduced to, somebody that you know, and the person that they got introduced to end up doing some whole shit to you and all the people around you. And you got proof and you tell them and you just, like you know you've been to this motherfucker like damn, this is fucked up, this is fucked up, this is neck. And this person ain't got nothing to say about the situation, nothing has to do with them, because I guess it wasn't actually done to them, but really it was, but it wasn't literally done to them, but you're a part of the team, so it was done to me, which is somebody that's cool with you and supposed to be your friend, and the people that were invited, you know, to be around this certain event or things like that. So at that point, to me, if it's me, I guess I'm just different.
Speaker 1:If it's me, the motherfucker who was on that whole shit, oh they, they out of there, like now, because that's some fucked up shit like you don't these my people? And you came fucking with us and trying to chill and this, this and that, but you done came in there some whole shit and I pulled a whole move running out on payments and all this other bullshit and getting over and all this, this whole shit. Like no, you editor, like ain't no, trying to be cool, none of that shit. I don't even give fuck. We done exchanged numbers or what's the case. Nigga, you editor, straight deleted because y'all some hoes for that shit.
Speaker 1:So I don't know if I'm different or it is. I mean I don't, I don't understand. But that shit, I don't know what part of the friendship code or even if you call yourself a friend, what part of just being on some real shit is it? Who? Who wants to be that cool with somebody to the point where that shit don't even matter? Okay, yeah, they did this and that fuck, that ain't shit, whatever, like what type of? I mean I don't understand that shit ain't cool at all. What type of fucking friend code is that? Like we're at this point, were you even, were you ever a friend? And I don't know.
Speaker 1:I'm just like speaking because I, I don't shit. I'm speaking on here because I ain't got nobody else to talk to about it. So I mean, if you listening it, don't get offended. It's just that I really want to. I'm asking these questions because, shit, if I can't, I can't talk to you. So I have questions because that shit is really weird and awkward to me.
Speaker 1:Like that make that, makes a person feel like the whole every other conversation that you didn't have with a part, with the person or whatever it make you feel like shit. Damn, would you have done some shit like that, like who who's okay with being cool with a motherfucker that fucks over your friend or fucks over your homie and do some whole shit? No, I'm not coming like no, oh, they ain't good shit. Oh well, I still fuck some motherfuckers. They ain't did that shit to me. That shit ain't got nothing to do with me. Hell, no, nigga, I been here forever or been knowing you for a long time. So if I feel like, if that's the type of friendship we own or whatever, I'm loyal, so like if that's that's, nah, nigga, I'm not supposed to be on, no, I'm just.
Speaker 1:I want to be so cool this motherfucker that could curve fucking less if I got hit by a car the next day and praise him and just really want me to be a part of the videos and all this other shit, because they just like the point of y'all praising me, people behind me praising me and all it's all about me. That's. That's mainly what the whole thing is. They really don't give a fuck about you like. And then, what type of motherfuckers don't want to do shit for anybody or feed anybody? I'm talking about, like, if you're having an event and you're inviting people, especially if people are working, doing photography or anything, taking pictures I don't give a fuck if they sit there holding a camera. Nigga, I'm going to make sure everybody is good because I appreciate, I appreciate you, I appreciate your service and what you came to do.
Speaker 1:You didn't have to take time out of your day to come help cornbread. You didn't have to take time out of your day to come help cornbread. You didn't have to take time out of your day to come do nothing that had to do with me. You could have kept living your motherfucking life and taking care of your kids and did something else on easter weekend with your kids. So I'm not that type of motherfucker. I'm not. No, all about me, ass motherfucker.
Speaker 1:I don't fuck with people like that. So for a person to want to be cool with some motherfuckers that act like that and they only really worry about they goddamn self. And then you're sitting here and say, god forgive me, they only really worry about they self, like that. Shit is just blowing my mind, because who fucks with people like that? Like damn, are you on? Is that the type of person that you are? Because I didn't even, I mean I don't fuck with people like that. I mean, at this point then, when a motherfucker can tell you like you ain't that special for this, this and that I don't give a fuck, whatever, whatever this, this and that like, then who the fuck talks to somebody like that they cool with Apparently, it really doesn't matter, you ain't never been a cool. The way you talk is like you just been a fucking, we just been associates type shit. So I ain't never been thinking it was on, no shit like that. So I'm sitting here and we'll go above and beyond for somebody that probably wouldn't even go above and beyond for me, because at this point that's kind of what it sits to.
Speaker 1:What it sits boils down to this is kind of like it's not really on the above and beyond type shit, but it's just really got like common sense. How, motherfuckers, that's not that really. That wasn't even really fucking with certain people seeing shit and understanding shit and reading shit and like y'all, that's some fucked up shit like they. You know they they really like saying fuck you and your people.
Speaker 1:But then you got another gullible motherfucker that really want to be so friendly and to get some friends, that bad that you don't give a fuck what type of shit they did to somebody you cool, which you've been doing over 10 years or whatever the case may be, you don't give a fuck. You just want to be that cool with some motherfuckers. And you know what. I might be wrong, it might be, that might not be the issue. You might not want to be cool, but to me, when you have conversations with somebody and they always have an answer or they always put their two cents in and they can say what they feel and this, this and that, but then when it comes down to shit like this, you really don't have anything to say. At my point, at that point you're part of the enemy squad, you on their side. You feel like the shit that they done was cool and fuck that that's like.
Speaker 1:And then, on far as the show, shit, you disrespectful-ass motherfucker, you who comes to, like I said, who comes to somebody's show and say little, small, off-the-wall shit to make somebody to you know it's like to intentionally be disrespectful, and then you let that shit ride because, first of all, I don't like altercation, I don't like fucking, I don't like fighting and doing all the X shit and arguing shit. So let you have your little fucky ass attitude and let you whatever, whatever, but let that shit go on and that shit will be cut, it won't be live, it won't be put on. I know I know what the fuck I'm doing. I know how to play my role like. I know, like I'm not, I'm too fucking grown. Play with no fucking kids.
Speaker 1:But if people want to act like kids and treat people like kids, as they claim is supposed to be a friend, just to have a fucking kid a friend, to do some whole shit like that, I sure hate to see what happens to your ass when you decide to be friendly with motherfuckers that can curl less, that can't even tag you in a photo or whatever, but make sure they have you praising them in the background as an extra. But you make sure they have you praising them in the background as an extra. But you make sure you want to be friends with people like that and, like I said, I might not be wrong. I'm just saying in general, it don't even have to be the actual person or the people that was around me for this certain event or whatever. I'm just saying in general, like who the fuck would be cool with a person that did some hoe-ass shit like this? To some people, people that you cool with that you've been knowing for a long time nigga, hell, nah, you're editor. I don't give a fuck when nobody say you editor, that shit is not cool at all.
Speaker 1:And shout out to malika, danielle photography and the diamond heist hb, because they came to my shit this weekend and they acted a motherfucking fool. I mean like not bad. I'm talking about acting a fool like was on top of their shit. They came and they delivered, and I'm talking about they made sure everything was going. I'm talking about nonstop working and making sure shit was done and make sure shit was A1. Because that's just how they feel about their shit, like how they brand and shit like that. So shout out to them because who the fuck sits and watches somebody fucking work hard to make a fucking ungrateful ass motherfucker bitch happy and then sit there and try to say the person didn't do shit and was just sitting there chilling like what the fuck you must forgot. I got video footage, motherfucker, like we got behind the scenes and all that shit. Don't don't. Nobody did nobody have to deal with a fucking rude ass motherfucker with an attitude that ain't nobody. So at this point it's just like damn, why do all of that? They didn't have to, they didn't have to do, they didn't have to do the shit that they did.
Speaker 1:And then Malika, uh, danielle Photography went above and beyond for a uh for someone and they try to run out on the plug shit. It's like what the fuck is going on? Like you trying to run off on the plug, you ain't trying to pay your pay money, and then what you're trying, the stuff that you're trying to get you barely can. You don't want to pay for a hundred dollars, but then you bitching about trying to get some stuff that's worth seventeen hundred dollars. Make it make sense. Like I'm just I don't understand. I don't understand. I don't understand. I don't understand.
Speaker 1:Like talk, you're a motherfucking grown person. You're not a fucking kid and if people have issues with certain things, you go to the source and talk to them. That's nothing that pisses me off. Why are you going to another motherfucker and asking about their shit? Like, if you have something going on with somebody, you talk to that person about it. You talk to them. If you book somebody for some shit, why are you asking somebody else that ain't got shit to do with what y'all had going on? You decide to change your mind on site two seconds before you meet somebody and want some other shit done. Then you on video, tell the motherfuckers how you praising them and tell them how good they are, and then you turn around and say you didn't like the shit.
Speaker 1:Motherfuckers didn't know what they was doing. Come the fuck on now who has $10,000 worth of equipment and just try to get a fast gig, $100 job? Like, come the fuck on, make this shit make sense now. Like make it make sense. And motherfuckers come into a damn show with fucking 500 outfits on, like who the fuck is going above and beyond for a hundred dollars, like nigga.
Speaker 1:People do shit because of the way they that, because that's how they cool, like they cool and they call themselves trying to be nice to motherfuckers and do shit for them. Or, really honestly, because they cut for the person that has the event going on, or is doing the shit, or they done booked them, so they trying to show love to a motherfucker that's ungrateful and don't give a fuck and all about they motherfucking self. And then when shit, every little thing, nobody don't want to take accountability for nothing. Nothing you did was fucked up. Everything you did was fucked up. Everything you did was 100%.
Speaker 1:Now, one time, what can a part would this person say? You know what? Y'all was unorganized, or this didn't work out, and I was too, and you know. So it's just like it didn't. It didn't hit right, like you don't want to say shit, you don't want to do anything, you don't want to say nothing was your. I'm talking about nothing at all.
Speaker 1:And then I had an event from 6 to 10. 6 to 10, meaning that I never told a motherfucker I was pulling up right at 6 o'clock Never. When I say 6 to 10, meaning the podcast only takes an hour to be recorded. So 6 to 10, meaning long as that motherfucker is recorded within that time and we eat or whatever we do and chill and music or whatever. That's what the fuck is going on. That's that's what happens. Like that's what's going on. That shit is done by ten, ain't? No, I'm pulling up right at six o'clock on the dot and I'm late. No, that's not what the fuck was said and that's not how that shit work.
Speaker 1:Then, when it comes down to motherfuckers being so ungrateful, you go above. I go above and beyond, doing all types of shit for motherfuckers to make sure they comfortable and they okay with it coming and they shit. I mean and chilling and shit and and being on the show and you're ungrateful. To the point where you are you can tell. The first thing you say to a motherfucker when they pull up is y'all late, y'all hour and a half late. Yeah, motherfuckers were doing shit, bending over back and forth to your ass, trying to make sure you good, stopping here, here and there to get shit to make sure you're good while you're making trying to oh, can this, this and that, can this, this and that? But no, nobody knows all the extra shit. Y'all just motherfuckers, just on the outside looking in, just knowing what a motherfucker tell them. So, all that fucking ungrateful ass shit.
Speaker 1:Then a motherfucker wanna act like ain't nobody done nothing and oh, this is bad. Oh, this is bad. I can tell a fucking this type of person from this type of person. No, you motherfucker, apparently you can't and apparently you just full of shit. Because who praises somebody on a video ain't got other footage of other shit, background scene and all this type of stuff but then say a motherfucker ain't do nothing, a motherfucker was trash and this, this and that, but you saying something. That's how, that's just dirty. Just you contradicting yourself all the way, fucking around all this motherfucking proof, and I mean I don't know this.
Speaker 1:That shit is just fucking crazy to me. And that lets me know how it actually opened my eyes, because it lets me see, like, how my, how people, my loyalty, people's loyalty, is towards me. Because, like, damn, like, if it all it takes is for a fake-ass motherfucker to come from another another, another state, to make you feel like you, somebody, when they could motherfucking curl less, they can't even tag a bitch or even add your name on a photo on social media because they want you to be like an extra ass motherfucker and that's all it takes to say fuck somebody, friendship, or to say I don't give a fucking, just have a funky ass attitude and and switch up on somebody. I mean that, oh my god, this shit is fucking ridiculous and this shit is blowing my mind like I don't understand. That's why I stay in the house, because when I come outside, you motherfuckers always trying to play me like that's that's, oh, I'm some real shit. What what's said Flippa said on me Like on me Ain't nobody playing. That's some real shit. That's why people stay to they self and don't do shit.
Speaker 1:Don't promote people, don't do none of that extra shit, because when you do, people take your kindness for weakness and they don't give a fuck, fuck. And then they try to use you and use the people around you to make them motherfuckers think that you was on some shitey shit with them. Now, motherfucker, I ain't never met mother, I ain't never met something with people, and when I meet people and do certain shit with them, I don't know what type of person they are. I'm just taking, taking what it is, I'm just rolling with the punches. But, like I said, you live and you learn and then it's crazy because you live and you learn and you find out stuff about new people. But you live and you learn. And then it's crazy because you live and you learn and you find out stuff about new people. But you live and you learn and you find out shit about old people that you got your new suit, so I guess shit, it really doesn't matter at this point.
Speaker 1:Motherfuckers don't care. Loyalty ain't shit. No more. Because I best believe I am not. I would never do nothing like that or be or be acting a certain kind of way towards somebody that I've been knowing for a while, or be on some ain't in it type shit or this, this and that. But all the other times it's okay to have a conversation, but this particular time I'm not in it because I want to be low-key cool with these motherfuckers. No, that's not me and, like I said, I could be wrong. Like I'm just saying, I'm just speaking on how I am. That's not my character. I would not do no shit like that. I would not do no shit like that.
Speaker 1:And what type of motherfucker don't want motherfuckers in their shit? But certain times you want motherfuckers in their shit, but certain motherfuckers you don't even want to be fed. We're not paying them for this. We're not paying them to sit. We're not paying them the video. We're not paying like? What type of motherfucker is that fucking just shit that they cannot, that they don't want to make sure their guests that they invited to their show, are comfortable and have a good time.
Speaker 1:That's not me. I'm not that type of person. I'm not fucking, I'm not stingy like that. I appreciate people and what they in the time they took, taking out to do stuff for people because they didn't have to do it. Motherfuckers didn't have to leave their kids and come do shit with people to take care of, to do shit for your motherfucking ignorant not, oh, oh, shit, you know what? Oh, I'm not even gonna let it take me there. Like this shit is over with for the birds, like motherfuckers know that, like that shit people motherfuckers know, and I'm just gonna lead. I mean, I'm gonna have to lead. That third and God you know works in mysterious ways is all I can say.
Speaker 1:And shit, I guess just some friendships gotta be broken because, like, if that, if, if, if I don't wanna, I don't know, maybe type of friend around me because it's, it's scary at this point, because shit, if that's, that's, that means that shit, somebody fucking around me done tried to set you up or do some whole shit like that. It's like you could have been around all these years and then had somebody back or I always I'm being there, but when it comes to some shit, shit like this and you know and the person doesn't know or ain't part of it and it's kind of okay where they still trying to be friendly with some shit, it's like, at this point I don't know, it's like that shit is scary. I don point, I don't know, it's like that shit is scary. I don't know, you don't know. And when a motherfucker I don't care Say they don't care about a friendship or where the fuck that shit go, just do whatever the fuck you want to do with that shit. And I all because of some other motherfuckers. It's like you're taking somebody else's side because you want to be friendly with the motherfucker, be friends with somebody that motherfucking bad that did some whole shit that you don't even care about, your friendship that you didn't have for over 10-15 years. That shit is fucked up to me like that shit is crazy. Like I said, it's blowing my mind. Y'all this shit is blowing my mind like damn, this shit is crazy. But I'm gonna have to get the fuck up out of here. We're gonna have an actual the main drop for the show and I am going to have once again. I don't know if they don't want to come back, because after this fucking weekend y'all I'm just saying, damn, y'all would have to have been there.
Speaker 1:But malika, daniel photography, if you're gonna come be a part of it, you still in my book motherfucking number one, top notch fuck what everybody got to say. The diamond heist hb fuck what everybody got to say. The Diamond Heights HB fuck what everybody got to say. I'm talking about in that bitch y'all. And we gonna have a good ass time and it ain't gonna be no fucking ill intentions or no fake ass motherfuckers around. So we're gonna get this shit books, we're gonna set this shit up and y'all just be ready for a real movie, because I hate not even saying that shit on the previous one because it wasn't one. So y'all just make sure y'all be ready to just turn up with us and shit like that, and I'll make sure I have some real motherfuckers in the building that ain't on no shite seat or a pool shite seat type shit. So y'all already know what it is. It's your girl, dj Cornbread, aka the Empress, but shit, show the podcast and I'm out, this bitch Bow.